Celebrating Nine Years

Nine years ago today, I accepted a very succinct email request and became Ross’ girlfriend. Even though he may not remember it, or acknowledge it, I believe it is a landmark worth recognizing. 

A lot has happened in those nine years- we've gone from single to married to parents, from students to employees, renters to home-owners and between us lived in four different countries along the way!

We've survived all the separations, mistakes, hardships and miscommunication, and managed to build something wonderful together.

Nine years in, hearing his key in the door still makes my stomach flip and my heart race. After hundreds of phone-calls, hearing his voice still makes me smile. Every single day of the last 3285 has seen me fall deeper in love with this sweet Boy. 

Ross,

I never imagined that I would get to spend my life with someone that I love and respect as much as you. Through the pain of loss and depression, the sweetness and challenge of raising our little boy, and the simple joys of every day spent together-  I can't imagine a better partner in life. You are my best friend, my confidante, my encourager, and my love. From your wit and humour to the way you challenge me to follow Christ more closely, I could fill pages with the things I love and admire about you. I love how sweet you are, and how you care deeply for the people you love. You are the most loving, invested and proud dad. I love watching you 'rescue' animals stuck on coat trees, hide in the 'cave' from the bears and and patiently read Room on the Broom for the thousandth time. I appreciate your honesty and integrity, and that you hold me to account. I admire your intelligence, work ethic, generosity and endurance. You still give the best cuddles!

There is so much more I could say, Ross, but I hope you get the idea- I think you are amazing! I am so grateful the Lord brought you into my life. Thank you for asking me to be your girlfriend, all those years ago. Thank you for starting this journey with me and for sticking with me, even on the bad days. Thank you for filling my life with love and laughter, beautiful prose and way too many books. 

I love you beyond words. 

Yours always,

Jennie